3.5
A mother's love is not defined by how much she endures a life that is unbearable but by the wise acts of love a mother makes to make life easier for her child. 
A mother shouldn't sacrifice all her life for her child. And if she doesn't, it doesn't mean she's not a good mother. She's a human being worthy of living.
And Wilde wrote about this in 19 century! 
This short play has so much more to offer than the paragraph I wrote, but his take on motherhood stood out the most to me.